Thursday, November 26, 2009

A Thanksgiving Memory

The first Thanksgiving I ever spent away from my family was one worth remembering. It had its highs: eating an awesome traditional Thanksgiving meal complete with my favorite orange rolls from All Steak in Cullman, Alabama, with a view of the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade, and its lows: a visit from the NYC fire department, and a run in with an army of New York City's homeless population.

Truthfully, the opportunity to spend it with my dear friend Cindy, one of the best southern cooks I know, at her New York City apartment overlooking Time's Square, definitely took the edge off of any tinge of homesickness I may have been feeling. She planned to host all of our friends who didn't get to go home for the holiday in style. In her tiny apartment that had once been home to Fred Astaire, we rearranged furniture, brought in extra tables, and set the scene for what was to be an unforgettable day. I had even brought a dozen rolls from home to be baked fresh for the occasion.

Fifteen or twenty friends packed into the place that was steaming with the delicious smells of turkey, dressing, pies and casseroles. There was probably enough butter in that one meal to choke a whale, that's how good it was. Well, about the time we sat down to eat, we all start to smell smoke. Probably something on the stove...

No. I looked out the window and reflecting in the windows of the building across the street were flames! They are coming from the building next door! Connected to us! Well, all I could think of were my rolls that were still in the oven. Everybody evacuated the building except for me. When the smoke got too thick I donned some oven mitts, grabbed my precious pan of rolls, and hopped on the hundred year old elevator which creaked slowly down to the first floor. Then I ran out onto 44th Street where hundreds of homeless people were waiting for a Thanksgiving meal that was being served inside by the church on the lower floors of the building.

A better man than me might have shared those rolls with the less fortunate, but frankly, I didn't haul them on that plane with me all the way from Alabama to give them all away. I'm sorry. Is that bad?

After about twenty tense minutes that felt like hours, we all got to go back inside. The fire next door had been put out and we all got to have our meals. Santa must have already passed by this point -sometime between the fire truck's sirens and the cross-dressing homeless guy who kept eying my orange rolls.

The point here is: You never know what your getting into when you break with tradition, but you might just end up with a great story to tell if your rolls don't catch fire or get eaten by a trans gender homeless guy.

Saturday, November 14, 2009

Thank Some Veterans


Amanda and I spent a few days at the campus of LSU last week for my work. Most of you know by now that I play the organ for horse shows. This was the Louisiana Fall Festival.

One morning we got to campus a little early and decided to take a walk. We saw this beautiful American flag in a grassy field and were drawn to it. If you look closely you can see Amanda standing at the base of the flagpole and it gives you some perspective on just how big this flag was. The musical sound of the folds dancing in the fall breeze was just amazing.

As this week passed, with the news of balloon mom and dad pleading guilty, the poor bastard, Khalid Sheikh Mohammed who is being tried in NYC for the heinous acts of 9/11, the shooting at Fort Hood... I tried to pause a few moments and reflect on some worthy people.

Our great country enjoys freedom and peace because of our Veterans. Those serving now and in the past are deserving of all our gratitude and honor. I am humbled at the thought of their bravery. In the coming season of Thanksgiving, lets all be sure to thank a few more Vets post Veteran's Day.

Monday, November 2, 2009

When You Fail


When you fail, and it will happen, how will you deal with it? Will you lay down, find some friends who will say "Well... you didn't really fail, you were just a victim." Or will you change your standards to match your inadequacies? Or will you get up, dust yourself off and try again?

If you do not fail, you will not grow. If you constantly avoid failure, you truncate your potential. If you make the same mistake over and over, you are not alone. But if you decide that success isn't worth the effort, then you are wrong.

Change is possible, but it will not happen if you are not willing to confront the junk that is in place that facilitates the problem. Pastor Dan Scott preached an awesome sermon about this yesterday at Christ Church. Visit christchurchnashville.org and go to sermons to see it for yourself.

Lord, please give me the strength and wisdom to keep getting back on that old horse every time time I fall off.